Image of Michaela Coel side by side with a copy of her book Misfits

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Earlier this year, actor and screenwriter Michaela Coel (I May Destroy You, Chewing Gum) announced that she was publishing her first book, Misfits: A Personal Manifesto. With humour and honesty, it immerses readers in Coel’s life, from her upbringing in East London to her discovery of theatre and love of storytelling. As well as sharing an insight into her reckoning with trauma, she uses life lessons from her work and life to invite us to reflect on the importance of transparency and self-knowledge. As the commissioning editor behind the book, we spoke to Marianne Tatepo at Ebury who talks about the transformative lessons she learned while creating this book with Coel. 

1. The power of diversity of thought

I think there can be this concept of people being islands. Michaela Coel dispels that idea with her screenwriting, acting, creating: she’s the ultimate multi-hyphenate.

One thing I remembered from watching her public speaking is that she will always acknowledge and thank team members. There's her brilliant mind, and everything she brings to the table, but there's also an openness about her, and an intellectual approachability, which means that you can be very open. Just as I was informed by working with her, I hope to have informed her and opened her mind  through the publishing process.

It has felt quite transformative. I’ve learned a lot about the power of bringing together lots of voices, and ultimately that is the central message of the book, ‘There are as many perspectives as there are people,’ to borrow from author Colin Wright’s words. A lot of us get sucked into our in-group, and we forget to look further afield and to reflect back on ourselves – but Michaela is constantly holding up a mirror to herself, the rest of the world and the rest of the room.

2. There are more ways to write about trauma

A lot of heavier subjects are often looked at from a perspective which flattens the conversation. And, in a way, rightly so: a lot of these are serious, and we should take them seriously. But I think the reality is that a lot of people  who have experienced trauma have the best humour and coping skills in the world because you need that to survive. You can't constantly be feeling so raw and on edge, and essentially heartbroken. You can't move through life constantly feeling the full weight of the severity of your ‘condition’ or ‘situation’.

Michaela always stays true to the fact that there are really hindering conditions under which some of us  live in society. But she has also managed to bring out the light and the ridicule of the absurdity of certain injustices, and that almost makes a mockery out of the perpetrators of these power dynamics and imbalances.

To me that's transformative because I hope that whoever's experienced a really difficult thing, whether on an interpersonal or relational or professional level, can feel seen by her analysis and the fact that actually it's not a linear experience, you have your ups and downs; you might laugh, you might cry.

 

3. We need to re-examine the popular notion of ‘victimhood’

The idea of what a ‘survivor’ can look like is so nuanced, and not always consistent. That's the scope of the human experience, that you feel things that are in contradiction with one another. I've personally never read anyone who's managed to peel back all of the layers like this. Michaela did it in I May Destroy You with the character of Arabella, but even in the show, there's lots of different women, different people. And she also does it in the book, as she pays tribute to not just her own experiences but people of other groups, and writes this love letter to marginalised individuals. 

The main thing that I keep with me from creating this book with Michaela is that if you've experienced something dramatic and life-changing you can still have inner power, whilst at the same time acknowledging your vulnerabilities. I'm talking about containing multitudes essentially, and reclaiming the narrative around so-called victimhood.

 

 

4. We all have different identities over time

Your trauma doesn't need to be productive. However, often our traumas do change us, sometimes in subtler ways than others. We're constantly reinventing ourselves and that can be the result of positive and negative events happening to us, but I think we should embrace it and be proud that we're not necessarily stuck in our ways. 

I was reminded by Michaela that we should allow ourselves space to be flawed. Likewise, when things happen to us that are outside of our control, let’s give ourselves the kind of empathy and patience that we give others; acknowledge how life's really difficult events might change us, but retain openness towards others and to change. When people turn to the final few pages of the book, I hope that they will be left with a hopeful, generative state of mind that will encourage them to want to look at humanity from a place of curiosity rather than mere suspicion and pessimism.

5. Hope is the ultimate form of healing

I think it's important to keep hope alive, and that's what Michaela does really brilliantly. I was really inspired as an editor to work with an author who managed to discuss some of the trickiest topics to be writing about and end the book on a note that is humorous, but also really makes you think, and makes you feel hopeful and curious about all the good stuff around us as well.

You can never really heal a wound. But having that kind of openness to being pleasantly surprised is what gets you back to a better place. Ultimately, I think she does that, in a way I've never seen before. That's something to hold on to.

  • Misfits

  • THE INSTANT SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER

    'Razor-sharp and as funny as I May Destroy You ... A gifted writer' Sunday Times | 'A remarkable talent' Guardian | 'A perfect truth-teller of our time' ELLE | 'Leaps off the page' Observer | 'Comic and devastating' New York Times | 'A magnificent thinker' gal-dem | 'A must-read' Metro | 'Your self-help bible of 2021' Sunday Times

    ***A BEST AUTUMN READ in Vogue, Vulture, Time Magazine, Observer, Entertainment Weekly, Bustle and LitHub ***
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    From the brilliant mind of the creator and star of I May Destroy You and Chewing Gum comes a passionate declaration against fitting in.

    Michaela Coel's MacTaggart Lecture touched a lot of people with her striking revelations about race, class and gender. But in the end, the person most impacted was Coel herself. Building on this speech, Misfits immerses readers in her deeply personal vision through powerful allegory and anecdotes - from her East London upbringing to her discovery of theatre and love for storytelling.

    With inspiring insight and wit, she tells of her reckoning with trauma and metamorphosis into a champion for herself, inclusivity and radical honesty, and in telling her journey invites us to reflect on our own. By embracing our differences, she says, we can transform our lives. An artist to her core, Coel holds up the path of the creative as an emblem of our need to regard one another with care and respect - and transparency.

    Misfits is a triumphant call for honesty, empathy and inclusion. This timely, necessary book is a rousing coming-to-power manifesto dedicated to anyone who has ever worried about fitting in.

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